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🪞 You Have a Best Self AND a Worst Self — And That's Okay

LIP #217
Dec 19, 2024

Most people think integrity is simple: you're either good or bad. But that's not how it works.

When asked about your best self, you probably share proud moments easily. But your worst self? Most people get defensive.

Here's the truth: Both versions are you — and accepting that is the first step to real growth.

The Integrity Gap

Think of integrity as the distance between your best and worst self.

  • Work on yourself = the gap gets smaller
  • Ignore it = the gap grows wider

The goal isn't perfection. It's closing that gap, one day at a time.

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