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🧠 Why Judgment Feels So Personal

LIP #208
Oct 10, 2024

Judgment is how fast and well you make decisions. Training it is really hard because it feels tied to who you are.

When someone says you're bad at math, you think: 'Okay, I can learn that.'

But when someone says you have bad judgment? It feels like an attack on your whole brain.

Why does this matter?
Parents tell kids to 'use good judgment' all the time. That kind of feedback sticks and shapes how we see ourselves.

Judgment feels like it IS you - unlike cooking or spreadsheets, which feel separate.

The good news: once you understand this, you can separate your identity from your judgment and actually start improving it.

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