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😨 Fear and Frustration: The Two Feelings That Stop You Growing

LIP #211
Oct 31, 2024

The Two Feelings That Block Your Growth

When you try something outside your comfort zone, two big feelings show up:

  • Fear - when something feels way too hard
  • Frustration - when something feels too easy or pointless

Both are normal, but they create what are called cards of death - mental movies your brain makes predicting how badly things will go. Once created, you cannot unsee them.

Think of it like being sick: When you have a cold, easy tasks feel impossible. You might blame the task instead of realizing you just feel terrible. Fear and frustration work the same way.

The expert's secret weapon: Saying "I don't know" - pausing instead of jumping to conclusions when emotions are running high. That takes real courage.

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