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💡 How to Be a Great Mentee (Not Just Find a Great Mentor)

LIP #223
Feb 13, 2025

Here is a shocking stat: 96% of mentor-mentee relationships fail. Finding a great mentor is only half the job — you also have to be a great mentee.

Hold yourself to high standards. At Google, 95 out of 100 was the bare minimum. We expect a lot from leaders — expect the same from yourself.

Be HOT:

  • Humble
  • Open
  • Transparent

Avoid being ICKY:

  • Entitled
  • Closed-minded
  • Hidden

To build trust with a mentor:

  • Show up HOT
  • Be genuinely grateful
  • Always follow through

No one wants to mentor someone who is ICKY. Be the mentee people want to invest in.

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