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🎯 Good Obsession vs. Bad Obsession: Finding the Sweet Spot

LIP #227
Mar 13, 2025

Obsession is not always bad - it can be your superpower if pointed in the right direction.

Think of obsession like a flashlight. You can shine it on:

  • Your worries and fears - makes them bigger and scarier
  • Your goals and outcomes - sounds good, but can freeze you up too
  • The process and daily craft - this is the sweet spot

There are two types of curiosity to know:

Interest Curiosity - the good kind. Pure joy of exploring something you love.

Deprivation Curiosity - the sneaky bad kind. Driven by discomfort, it makes you jump to conclusions, believe misinformation, and get defensive.

Aim to direct 80% of your mental energy into passionate pursuits rather than anxious spiraling.

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