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🧠 Why Your Brain Freaks Out When Plans Go Wrong

LIP #200
Aug 15, 2024

Ever walked into a situation thinking it'd be easy, then everything went sideways?

The moment you think 'this isn't going to plan', you're revealing a hidden plan you didn't even know you had.

When reality doesn't match that hidden expectation, your brain starts asking unhelpful questions:

  • Why is this happening?
  • How did I not see this coming?

This leads to a downward spiral - some people physically escape, others start LHF (Lying, Hiding, Faking) their way through it.

Here's the sneaky part: our brains get addicted to negativity. When we predict something bad and it happens, our brain gets a little reward for being 'right.' So we keep predicting bad things, even when it hurts us.

Just knowing this is happening is the first step to changing it.

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