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🎯 Being Real vs. Putting On a Show

LIP #220
Jan 23, 2025

Are You Being You, or Playing a Character?

There's a big difference between performing for others and actually being yourself.

Z00 State = Zero hesitation + Zero calculation

  • Being fully present and in the zone
  • Not second-guessing every move
  • Think of it as your "flow state"

The Authenticity Scale:

  • One end: Performance mode (doing what you think you should do)
  • Other end: Authenticity (being genuinely yourself)
  • Goal: Move as far toward authenticity as possible

Watch out for LHF - Lying, Hiding, Faking:

  • People around you can sense when you're not being real
  • It creates discomfort and even hostility
  • Being an open book creates psychological safety for everyone
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