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🐘 The Elephant, The Rider, and Blocking the Average Path

LIP #257
Oct 23, 2025

Imagine you're riding a giant elephant. The elephant is your subconscious mind - your emotions and habits. You, the rider, are your logical brain. The problem? The rider cannot force the elephant where to go.

The solution: block certain paths.

There are three roads ahead of you:

  • Road to greatness = 4% of the path
  • Road to terrible = 4% of the path
  • Road to average = a massive 92%

Left alone, your elephant always takes the easy 92% average road. So you need to put up a fence and block that entire average path.

Now the elephant only has two choices. Surprisingly, being terrible is the second-best option - the pain of failure eventually forces change. But being average keeps you comfortable and going nowhere.

Average is what truly stops you from being great.

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