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🤖 How to Actually Work Well With AI (It's a Social Skill, Not a Tech Skill)

LIP #263
Dec 11, 2025

Two people use the same AI and get completely different results. Why? The secret isn't technical - it's social.

The skill that makes someone great at AI is cognitive empathy - understanding what the AI knows, doesn't know, and needs from you.

The wrong approach: Ask AI for answers, copy what it says

The right approach:

  1. Share YOUR thesis first
  2. Explain what you're unsure about
  3. Ask AI to critique your thinking
  4. Stay in the driver's seat

When you get a bad AI response, ask yourself: 'What false assumptions is the AI making? What context am I forgetting to share?'

Think of AI as a team of a thousand interns - without your guidance and context, it creates more problems than it solves.

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