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🍫 Treat Your Negative Thoughts Like a Bag of Doritos

LIP #224
Feb 20, 2025

Imagine someone leaves a giant bag of Doritos on your kitchen counter. A truly committed healthy eater doesn't just say no — they smash it, pour hot sauce on it, and throw it in the trash.

Most people don't treat their negative mental chatter the same way. Instead, they say: 'You can stay, I just won't listen to you.' But just like those Doritos sitting on the counter — eventually, you'll give in.

The intensity of your response matters:

  • 'I probably shouldn't think about that' = door left open
  • 'That is poison and it does not belong here' = door slammed shut

For the 21st century, the two most important traits are:

  1. Courage (first, always)
  2. Curiosity

Character traits and emotions are basically the same thing. To be courageous, you have to feel courageous.

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